Last
evening, after we left the hospital, Grandpa, Laurel, Evan, Michelle,
little Everest and I went out to eat at the historic pedestrian mall
here in Charlottesville. As we were strolling down the mall after a nice
meal, I happened to run into Jay and Susan Perry, the friends who had
located the condo we are renting and that has been such a blessing.
They, in turn, had just happened to run into Claire
and Howard Goodman, the friends of theirs who had offered to let me
park Bob’s car in front of their house, which solved another of the
small challenges in getting settled in a new place under these difficult
circumstances. So, out of the clear blue, the four people who I had
wanted to have the opportunity to thank in person for their kindness all
converged in the same space and time! Those are the small miracles that
keep happening that reassure us that there are larger forces afoot than
those we can see and know.
We
needed that reassurance this morning at rounds when we learned that Bob
had had two seizures around six o’clock this morning. While that was a
disappointment, it only meant making some adjustments to his medications
and temporarily going back up a step in his coma-inducing medication.
By this afternoon, he is back down to the dose that he was at overnight,
so we are praying hard that he is able to stay at this level without
any further seizures, and then successfully make the next reduction at
3:00 am.
In
chatting with family members this morning, it emerged that four of us
had had dreams of Bob awake and talking last night. We’re taking
encouraging signs anywhere we get them!
I love how you guys saw Bob awake in your dreams last night. What a wonderfully encouraging "coincidence". You're all in our prayers. Love you, Kathy & Mark
ReplyDeleteI worked with Bob on the IAC board for nearly two years, and during that time came to understand a few things about this amazing warrior.
ReplyDeleteHis expectations of life and people's contributions are high - he takes a stand in the highest good, the highest possibility and then invites us unapologetically to join him there. Thus, he lifts us all up. He drew the best from me, and it seems he is still drawing the best from all of you who are working with hope and purpose for his full recovery.
Secondly, it seems clear to me that Bob's passion, though expressed brilliantly by him in intellectual terms, is really grounded in Big Love and faith that we all have something magnificent to contribute. I suspect that while his brain rests, his Spirit is still on fire with this faith and with his expectation that the best and highest purpose will be served. Bob is one of God's precious gifts to us all, on so many levels. Of course he would say, so too are each of you.
So with Bob in mind, I'm off to be more generous with the light I allow to shine through me. And isn't so cool to know that we're all doing this?
Many blessings, Joan Johnson